Whenever I remind myself to accept, I open up choices that I couldn't know about previously, because too much energy was expended in resistance. Whatever you would like to be different in your life, do yourself a great favor and accept where things are right here, right now. It is relaxing to receive yourself, the people in your life and life itself. And, it is easier to make changes from this vantage point because you have clarity about your circumstances.
Make a point today to relax, accept, and get a good aerial view.